I would have done anything to have a baby shower. My family didn’t really support me. (My wonderful mom would tell them only her side of stories and not let me tell mine so she made my family hate me. 🙃) she also needed attention so bad that one of the days I was in the hospital having my child she was hospitalized. Why? “Heart problems” at the time she didn’t have any. Also abandoned me at the hospital. When I see someone being so ungrateful it really makes me mad. I swear some people can be complete assholes and somehow still have people support them. It makes no sense. Honestly it’s not the baby shower, it’s them not asking me if I needed anything knowing I didn’t have a job and my daughter’s father abandoned us. I swear it’s the people that typically can afford it get the baby showers. I cried for fifteen years every time I spoke about it because it hurt my feelings so bad. I was struggling so bad we had to ask for an extra pack of diapers at the hospital. It was rough. She should have been grateful for anything they did for her. Whatever people do it’s out of love.