Someone was asking for help anonymously on our local Fb site. I messaged her privately for her bank details and sent her what I could afford of my own paltry income. She then proceeded to private message me constantly for more money. I've since been told that she's a wrong 'un who is well known for such scummy behaviour. At first, I felt awful but I've realised, my character is in tact. This is a reflection of her grossness. Takers are always going to take and that's why us givers need boundaries.