Is she Mormon? I’ve gotten really into Alyssa Grenfell, who’s an ex-Mormon and former missionary, and was pretty shocked by how little the church cares for the very young, impressionable people they’re sending out to proselytize, and what dire situations these missionaries (overwhelmingly teenagers who’ve spent their entire lives being indoctrinated) can find themselves in. While I absolutely think the Mormon church is evil, I definitely have a lot more compassion for the people carrying out missions and the ways that their religion is failing them (while of course, also being a shitty thing to do, and negatively impacting a whole lot of other people). Definitely wouldn’t extend to contributing to an Owala fund for an LDS missionary, but definitely has given me a new perspective, and if I encountered a pair irl, I would make an effort to be a model of an atheist with good values, and probably offer a warm/cool place to rest for a bit and have a snack, while also being very clear I’m not interested in a new religion.