“Pain Is Unbearable”: Kyren Lacy’s Mother Makes Heartbreaking Admission, Weeks After LSU Son’s Death

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Kyren Lacy’s death broke the college football world. The LSU WR fought his way into the National spotlight and was on the brink of his NFL dream. Just a few weeks before the 2025 NFL Draft, those rising aspirations came to a heartbreaking halt. On 12 April 2025, the news broke out like a nightmare: Kyren Lacy was found dead, alleged to have died in a self-inflicted gunshot, after a police pursuit in Houston. The fallout has been a whirlwind of pain, confusion, and heartbreak. Lacy leaves behind a tight-knit family. Since then, his mom, Kandace, and dad, Kenny, have been sharing deeply emotional messages on the internet, asking parents to look in on their children’s mental states and expressing gratitude for the support. His mom, Kandace Washington, is an empowering force.Kandace is a singer, songwriter, DJ, performer, and a professional school counselor with a master’s degree in education. Amid her unimaginable sorrow, her words have become a lifeline for others navigating quiet battles of mental stress. Kyren was her oldest, and you can tell from social media messages that their bond was based on mutual pride and encouragement. It wasn’t just Kyren and his mom, however. The Lacy family is a close-knit team. His father, Kenny Lacy, is the head coach at BST Academy, a basketball skill development center, so sports and coaching were in his blood. Kyren also had two younger brothers, Jayden and Liam, who are still in school. Kandace often shared her children’s achievements on social media, proudly supporting them, with Kyren at the center of this adoration.After Kyren’s passing, Kandice’s grief has been public, not just as a mother mourning her son, but as someone who’d lost a close friend and confidant. And her latest post on Instagram is a tribute and portrayal of celebrating her baby boy. Kyren Lacy, forever in his LSU jersey, standing tall and proud like we’ve seen him so many times before. But this time, there’s something different—something that strikes you in the heart. At his back, a set of photoshopped angel wings, almost as if they’re about to sweep him up and take him away to some place serene.It’s a strong, poignant tribute. She captioned it as, “This pain is unbearable! Jesus!! I miss my baby so much!! EVERYTHING reminds me of you! I love you, son!! If I had my way, I would have never shared you with the world!! But your talent, love for others, and your humbleness made the world notice your light! It’s still us against the world always!! Momma loves you. Kyren Lacy!!! ” The agony she endures every day is a reflection of her strength. An aching pain that echoes, one of the good ones, gone way too soon. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Kandacefaye (@kandacefaye)Losing Kyren is a devastating loss to the entire Lacy family. The responses to the post are a tidal wave of goodwill—friends, family, teammates, and strangers alike offering up prayers and tributes. “I can’t imagine her pain, but I pray for this mother.” They speak of how Kyren’s smile could light up a room, how he motivated younger players, and how he stood by his brothers. You see, the ripple effect of his existence, reaching so many individuals, and you realize just how much he touched everyone around him.Kyren Lacy: More than just a teammateThe first few days following the death of Kyren Lacy were a blur of sadness, shock, and raw emotion, both for his family and for his LSU family as well. If you’ve ever seen a team rally around one of their own, you understand how strong those bonds can be. And no one exemplified that more than Garrett Nussmeier, Kyren’s beloved friend. Garret Nussmeier was among the first to speak out. With a plain heart emoji in the comment section, he expresses all he could, a grief too deep to be expressed in words. But not just Nussmeier. The entire LSU family rallied in a wave of love and support. Coaches, players, and even opponents wrote tributes, detailing Kyren’s work ethic, his ingenious smile, and how he always prioritized the team. The LSU coaching staff at one time had a moment of silence during practice.The most sentimental tribute, however, was from Kyren’s former high school. They had a ceremony in his honor, where his jersey hung over a chair and his name resounded throughout the stadium. Kandace, Kyren’s mother, was present, and as soon as she viewed the display of affection—the signs, the speeches, she couldn’t hold back her tears. It was an amalgamation of sorrow and appreciation, knowing her son was loved by so many. At those times, you understand that football is more than just a sport. It’s about family, legacy, and the connections that endure well beyond the last whistle.The post “Pain Is Unbearable”: Kyren Lacy’s Mother Makes Heartbreaking Admission, Weeks After LSU Son’s Death appeared first on EssentiallySports.