Im sorry your gf was jumped. There is this woman that is always asking for money in the subway. Onde I saw her outside of a groceries shop asking for money. I told her "I don't have money to give you, but I'm going to the store you can go with me and I'll buy you what you need". She called me puta. Lol. Thankfully that was just that. Before that something similar happened with a guy begger and he actually accepted that I buy him something to eat and drink, I really thought she would accept it too. 🤷🏻♀️ I started doing that after the last time I gave money to a begger. He asked me for money to eat and drink at a place I know, so I gave him exactly the amount he needed. He said thank you, turned to the person RIGHT NEXT to me and asked for the same thing. Being a broken student that struggled with money a lot but still wanted to help people I was very sad and frustrated. I never gave money to beggers again. Now (some years have passed and I have a job now) I just give money and donate stuff to institutions I like, that I know the people.