Ryan and his childhood best friend allegedly grew up so close that their parents teased them about ending up together. However, according to the woman, Ryan uninvited her one week before his wedding, as described in a post by u/daughtersIssues12 in Reddit‘s r/AmItheAsshole. The fallout has reportedly left the couple without the free catering her parents had promised as a wedding gift. The woman says Ryan called to let her know she was no longer welcome at the ceremony. His fiancée is reportedly uncomfortable with her attending, as she knows about the feelings the woman once had for Ryan. Even though the woman insisted she would never cause drama or interfere with the relationship, she says Ryan stood by the decision to keep her away. According to the woman, the fallout from that phone call moved fast. She was upset and shared the news with her parents, who have been close with Ryan’s family for years. The parents were reportedly unhappy to hear about the non-invitation and decided they would no longer attend or provide catering for the event. Ryan thinks his friend wanted this to happen According to the woman, this was supposed to be a generous wedding gift, and no contract was in place to hold them to the arrangement. Because the parents were allegedly providing the service for free, they felt within their rights to withdraw their support after their daughter was told she was not wanted at the celebration. However, Ryan allegedly did not see it that way. AITA for ruining my childhood best friend wedding after I was disinvited. byu/daughtersIssues12 inAmItheAsshole The woman says Ryan reached out again after learning the catering was off the table, and he was apparently stressed about the situation. He reportedly accused her of being petty for taking back the family gift after being uninvited, and allegedly argued that the canceled catering proved his fiancée was right all along about the friend wanting to ruin the wedding. Ryan’s side of the story could not be verified. According to the woman, Ryan said the couple didn’t have the time or money to find a replacement catering team on such short notice. She ended her post by asking whether she had gone too far, and commenters overwhelmingly sided with her, noting that she neither chose to be uninvited nor made the call to cancel the catering. “NTA. You didn’t know that would result in catering being pulled and it’s your parents decision to make,” one commenter wrote. Others argued Ryan should never have uninvited the friend whose parents were catering for free. One person suggested he must have told his fiancée about the friend’s past feelings. The woman said she was happy for Ryan when he announced his engagement, but she now believes the friendship is over. Her parents have not reversed their decision, leaving the couple only days to replace the food. The wedding is still set for next week, and the woman says she is weighing whether to ask her parents to cook for the event anyway, even though she remains uninvited.