Yeah and while out of state makes it sound like OP is far away they’re probably in MA (and likely a lot closer to Nashua than say the Berkshires) a lot of MA is really close to Nashua on the NH border. Hell all of New England is smaller than a lot of single states. The message should have been clearer they’re willing to pay but politely asking if they’re willing to deliver it ~30 minutes away is fine it would only cross over into choosy begging if they got bitchy when told no or expected it for free.