Is this an avoidant relationship? At times he’s told me Im a narcissist. But also called himself an avoidant. But then recently called me an avoidant - even though I felt like I was just respecting his original wish which was: my needs were too much for anyone to handle. So I shouldn’t cling onto someone when I know my needs (which I didn’t really mention in the post) haven’t changed. I feel like I got discarded And only remembered and wanted when he feels like I’m pulling away At one point in the beginning of the break up He told me I needed to ‘play hard to get’ that it was off putting I don’t know how to play the games I know I love too hard and my emotions are too big And come off strong   submitted by   /u/Lucky-Mission1970   to   r/AvoidantRelationships [link]   [comments]