To me it reinforces the failure of western individualism.. how we're too important.. we dont make efforts with family.. how we let small issues become big issues My ethnic friends fights and arguments with their family but they move on, my white friends are 'no contact' for the similar reason. Going "no contact' for my mental health is such a cop out. Of course there are extremes.,.... but for most its just a cop out to not deal with issues or learn to move on. Reddit, yankee spectrum of "see a therapist" is just so weird... the results are always so self centered