/u/Ravenamore on A local group for women looking to form friends and connections with others. Instead of looking for friends, she's looking for someone to foot the bill for her to give birth in a birthing center. Fyi, Medicaid would pay in full if she jus

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I was all set to at least try a VBAC with my daughter, but when I was 39 weeks, I came in for an ultrasound, and they said there was a really good chance she could be 10 lbs. I've short, and I'd had doctors before mention I have a particularly small pelvic outlet. I realized there was a better than average chance that she'd have problems getting out, and I'd end up with an emergent C-section. I didn't want to put her safety at risk for the sake of my ego, and I knew planned C-sections were safer for everyone concerned. I decided right then and there, and told the doctors to scrap the VBAC idea. They asked if I was sure, and when I told them I was, they stepped out for a minute, then came back and asked "Would tomorrow be a good birthday?" I've never regretted it. Having a baby with the best chance in life was my ultimate goal, and I got that. Risking her life for an artificially hyped vaginal birth experience was not worth it.