I agree!!! Women cannot have it both ways-where they decide & control a man's future!! Yet I also believe that most folks have lost the plot. Don't have sex until you are ready to be a parent(even if not actively trying), do not have sex with someone youre not prepared to be tied to for the rest of your life, because accidents can happen to anyone!! P.S. i had sex before marriage, I was open & honest with my kids-they knew my story, offered my daughter BC, bought both kids condoms without a word(so they had them just in case-without having to ask), gave them the above advice(often), & my daughter waited for marriage & my son is a 23yo virgin-with offers & tons of social pressure(one girl talked to me, wanting me to convince my son to have sex with her-wild talk 🤣). Again, not complicated!!