You deserve an award for this sleuthing!!! 🏆 So the girlfriend doesn’t exist and he’s a scammer or he’s a stalker who groomed a kid and she left and now he’s hoping a grand gesture will win her back. Maybe that 8 years was 4 years ago and he can’t accept that she left him. A grand gesture, a wedding without the funds or even a wedding ring, homeless w/ no job and a concept of a future honeymoon seems like OOP is hoping a grand gesture will win her back plus all HIS plans for a wedding and honeymoon.