So 80 year old mom is the one keeping the family housed and fed and dad and his wife live there along with one of their set of parents who have to be around 100 plus how many of the kids and grandkids? Yeah I know it’s a grift but to stay in make believe land the lady isn’t recovering from this. She may survive, she may heal but she’s never working again and it’s doubtful she’ll ever make it out of the nursing home she’s going to for rehab.