Companionship and overnight presence = Be sure to be here at night while my mom is sundowning so that you could babysit her antics and make sure she doesn't run away. Light Hygeine = wipe her ass Food prep = blend up all her food into puree and make her eat something Cleaning = Make sure the house doesn't smell like piss and death, wash her soiled clothes, and throw out her diapers. In return you get to share a bathroom with her which you'll have to clean and you'll get to share space with her shower chair and dentures. At night, after giving her meds and tucking her in, you get to retire to this cozy, enclosed mudroom and hope she sleeps this time.