On page 4, OOP adds that it's not just seeing the grave but in order to "handle the responsibilities there". What responsibilities? What on earth would be waiting for YEARS for him to take care of? And what exactly, in today's world, couldn't be handled from the US or wherever OOP currently resides? My dad lost both parents in the country where he was born - everything was totally doable via mail, phone and Internet. Also, while I can understand someone not wanting to give all their personal details, how exactly does the answer to "how many years ago did your father die?" fall into that category? Does OOP imagine that he'll say some number and everyone will automatically know, "Oh!! That means his father was Joe Smith!!" Millions of people die worldwide every year. 🤦