19 year olds don’t know how to be an adult in the world or in a relationship, they have no business getting married. Also having no money to pay for it is ridiculous. Seeing people who can’t even rent a car yet get married makes me sad and crazy feeling. Those marriages end in divorce more often than not, and they usually have kids by that point. Creating a broken family bc you think you’re grown 🙄 If you genuinely believe you are meant to be together for the rest of your life, whats the harm in waitint a few extra years to grow up and learn to be an adult in the world before making that commitment? And maybe make enough money to pay for it yourself. Oh right, bc they deep down know that if they don’t pull the trigger right then, then they’ll never actually make it down the aisle. They’re convinced marriage means they’ll never break up, so they gotta do it before a breakup happens.