I cant help bit wonder where you are. I have a cousin that has 8 kids as a single mom and nobody would be surprised if she got pregnant again...and this is exactly what she would say, too....(she and her children are basically not welcome at any family events due to very bad behavior (her eldest did time in prison at 18 for molesting his 5 year old step sister and either video taping it or showing her porn videos. Every member of the family has major klepto issues and truth-deficiencies. Etc)