This is wild as all get out...if they don't have it, what makes them think their family has it?? The assumption that anyone in her family has extra money just to give her to go on vacation is astonishing. This reminds me, I have a cousin whose wife always has her hand out. No one in the family AFAIK except me has said aything directly to her face about it, but they will backstab and talk mess about her to everyone else but her and her husband.