THE RUNDOWNRhea Seehorn and Graham Larson have been together since 2013, after being introduced through Larson’s ex-wife, fashion designer Mary Alice Haney.Larson, once a film producer on projects like The Last Samurai, now works as a real estate agent in Los Angeles, where he lives with Seehorn and his two sons.The couple has been engaged since 2015 and often speaks warmly about their blended family and unconventional love story.Rhea Seehorn has long kept her relationship with fiancé Graham Larson out of the spotlight. The Better Call Saul actress first met the Los Angeles-based producer and real estate agent in 2013 through an unexpected setup. More than a decade later, the couple continues to share a quiet relationship, sometimes sharing glimpses of their life with Larson’s two sons on social media.Here, everything to know about Larson and his relationship with Seehorn.They met through Larson’s ex-wife, Mary Alice Haney.In 2019, Seehorn shared the story herself on X. She wrote, “I told my hairdresser I’d like 2start dating again, she said I should meet this other woman in the salon. I hit it off w her & was just happy making a new girlfriend. But she insisted on setting me up. I’m now engaged 2 him. It was her ex. She didn’t tell me.”View full post on XSeehorn elaborated on the story in a 2018 appearance on the Really Famous with Kara Mayer Robinson podcast. She recalled meeting Haney by chance at the hair salon after a conversation with her colorist. “I said to my colorist, ‘If you want to fix me up, I’ll take it,’ because I don’t go to bars, I don’t do anything,” she explained.The colorist introduced her to Haney, and the two quickly connected. “By the end of the conversation, I said, ‘You don’t need to fix me up. I’d rather make a great girlfriend in this town than a guy friend any day,’” Seehorn said. “And she’s like, ‘No, no, no, I know who you should be dating.’ And that was Mary Alice Haney, and she set me up with her ex-husband, who is now my fiancé.”Larson works in real estate after a career in film.According to his professional website, Larson began his career in public relations in Washington, D.C., before moving to New York and then Los Angeles to work in production. His producing credits include The Last Samurai and Once and Again. He later joined Sotheby’s International Realty, where he says he found his “true passion” in residential real estate.Seehorn and Larson started dating in 2013.Seehorn shared an Instagram on January 26, writing, “Thank goodness I said yes to a blind date 10 years ago today, set up by a woman I had only met 45 mins prior in a salon, who turned out to be his ex-wife, and they had very young boys, who are now my sons too. I love them all to pieces. Happy 1st Date 10 Year Anniversary, @grahamjlarson! Thank you & love you @maryalicedavidov @haneyofficial! Love you, Graham, @_graylarson_ & @mclainlarson!”View full post on InstagramThe actress also recalled their first meeting in detail during a conversation on the SHE MD podcast with Haney in June 2025. After Haney sent an email introducing her to Larson, Seehorn said she immediately looked him up online. “Only wedding pictures come up of the two of you,” she told Haney. “You both have aged very well, so they did not look that long ago.”The exchange quickly turned playful. “So I write back with both of you cc’d, ‘Great to meet both of you, awesome, would love to hang sometime.’ Graham takes you off the cc and is like, ‘Hey, do you want to get dinner sometime?’ And I was like, cheater! What?”After a few rounds of emails and jokes about whether Haney might show up too, Seehorn decided to go through with the blind date. “I said, ‘I am getting a good story out of this no matter what. I’m going to go to this coffee, and maybe the two of them are going to show up in leather outfits—I don’t know—but I’m going.’”The couple got engaged by 2015.While it’s unclear when exactly the proposal happened, Larson confirmed their engagement in a May 2015 Instagram. He wrote, “Happy birthday to my beautiful fiancé. You are my light, my compass, my everything.”View full post on InstagramSeehorn has mentioned Larson in interviews and public appearances.While promoting Better Call Saul in 2022, Seehorn told Vanity Fair she and Larson were in London together when she learned of her Emmy nominations. “The three of us had just ordered drinks when [Graham] leaned over and said, ‘Babe, you got it,’” she said. “And he’d held my hand on all the other mornings when I had not got it.”Larson has two sons from his first marriage, and he was upfront with Seehorn about being a father.Larson shares two children, Gray and Henry McLain, with Haney. Seehorn discussed her relationship with them on Really Famous, saying, “They’ve been calling me stepmom. They’re 9-and-a-half and 11. They’re awesome. My relationship, and how close I am with them—and I’m very close—is completely because of the permission of their parents and the way they co-parent.”Michael Buckner//Getty ImagesShe added, “From the first time I picked up the boys from Mary Alice’s on the stoop of the house, she’s like, ‘This is Rhea. Wait until you meet Rhea, she’s amazing! You’re going to love her!’ She honestly goes after it with the idea that the more people loving my children—and for them to love—the better they’ll be.”On the SHE MD podcast, Seehorn shared, “Right at the beginning, he told me about the kids. He was like, ‘I want you to know that the kids are the most important thing in my life, so you do not have to make a decision on if you want kids or don’t want kids right now—but in your head, if you’re like, I don’t want them in my life, we shouldn’t do a second date.’”Haney replied, “That’s kind of a bad-ass thing to say.”Seehorn added, “I did find it attractive, because he wasn’t like, ‘You need to know if you want to be a stepmom today.’ He wasn’t advancing the relationship in an uncomfortable way, but he was definitely putting it out there that he was here for a relationship. I appreciated it—that’s very forthcoming.”They haven’t shared wedding details, but they’ve discussed their ideas.On the Really Famous podcast, Seehorn said that Larson has already had a “huge, gorgeous wedding” on the Isle of Capri. “It was so insane,” she recalled.Seehorn continued, “He was a film producer at the time, now he’s a successful realtor at Sotheby’s. So they had this massive party affair, and he loved it but has no desire to do that all over again. But I have not been married, so he’s willing to do whatever I want. He’d do justice of the peace as long as we could bring their boys, and now my boys, with us—then he’d be fine. I don’t want a giant wedding, but I don’t want to just do justice of the peace either.”She also laughed about touring one potential venue that turned out to be less romantic than expected. “It was like a vineyard—beautiful little tables, little chairs, this beautiful breeze,” she said. “I asked them, ‘So do you guys do weddings here?’ And they were like, ‘Oh yeah.’ Three minutes in, they’re asking, ‘Are you going to want these chairs that are here?’ and I said, ‘Do you mean the ones that are currently sitting right here?’ ‘Yes, because we charge per chair.’ I was not happy. It was the same as the funeral business.”They live in Los Angeles and keep a close-knit blended family.Larson’s site notes that he lives in Cheviot Hills with his fiancée and sons.Seehorn also told Haney on SHE MD, “I do everything I can to schedule my life and my work to not interfere with the boys whenever I’m home, because I usually work out of town.”Larson joined Seehorn at the Vanity Fair Oscar Party in March 2026.On March 15, Seehorn and Larson attended the Vanity Fair Oscar Party at the Los Angeles County Museum of Art. Seehorn wore a dark slip dress, while Larson opted for a black tuxedo with a ruffled white shirt and bow tie. The couple held hands while posing together on the carpet.Amy Sussman//Getty ImagesSeehorn shared her thoughts on marrying Larson in June 2026.During a June Actors on Actors conversation with Bryan Cranston, Seehorn revealed that she and Larson had been engaged for 11 years and together for 13. When Cranston jokingly asked whether they were still deciding if marriage would happen, Seehorn replied, “We’re sort of just working it out. No, it’s literally the planning gives me hives.”She later clarified that she does want to celebrate their marriage, albeit on a smaller scale. “No, I mean I do. He’s been married before, so he doesn't need a big wedding,” she said. “I would just like a small celebration though, like with friends.”As for what has kept them from setting a date, Seehorn jokingly put the blame on longtime collaborator Vince Gilligan: “Mostly just Vince Gilligan is the problem. I'm just waiting on his schedule. It's all that I'm waiting on.”Larson joined Seehorn for several pre-Emmys events in September 2026.Larson joined Seehorn for several events leading up to the 2026 Emmys. On September 10, they attended the Women of Emmy Season Celebration in Los Angeles, where Seehorn wore a brown suit with a white shirt and coordinating tie. Larson complemented her in a light blue double-breasted blazer, pale pink shirt, and dark trousers.Monica Schipper//Getty ImagesTwo days later, the couple attended The Hollywood Reporter and SAG-AFTRA’s Emmy nominees celebration at Chateau Marmont. Seehorn wore a sleeveless black dress, while Larson paired a brown blazer with a white shirt and navy trousers.Unique Nicole//Getty ImagesOn September 13, they continued their Emmys-week outings at MPTF’s 20th Annual Evening Before. Seehorn wore a bright green one-shoulder dress, while Larson chose a light neutral suit with a black shirt. They were photographed at the event alongside The Pitt stars Patrick Ball and Elysia Rotaru.Stefanie Keenan//Getty Images