/u/MyParentsWereHippies on Let me trauma dump my entire life so you can understand why I need €50K so I can have a €75K+ wedding, pay off all my debts & have a cushion until I find a job. I don’t want to burden my dentist fiancee so I’m begging strangers

Wait 5 sec.

The details of your anecdote dont really matter to the facts presented.