I (33F) just moved in with my boyfriend (34M) after two years of dating. It’s been a great relationship from my perspective. We were seeing each other every weekend and taking it in turns staying at each others place and decided to move in together after two years of this. The relationship is the best I’ve had, he is kind and understanding and makes me feel supported and listened to. All in all, we both put equal effort in and it’s been great. I check in with him to make sure he’s still happy with our relationship etc and he always is. It’s a low drama and mature relationship. However, according to The Internet some of his phone habits are red flags. He takes his phone everywhere: when he goes to the bathroom, the shower, the restroom if we’re out together etc. he has a privacy screen on it and it’s always on dnd. I don’t know the passcode. He never gives me his phone to do anything on. He has not connected his phone to our new WiFi (he says he doesnt need to due to unlimited data). I have had zero other reason to think he’s cheating until today. About 8 months ago I noticed there were 2 condoms in the pocket of his toiletry bag (we don’t use them). Every now and again, I would check and they were still there. Today I did and they’re not. We moved in together last week so I went through his stuff looking for any (I know..) and there are none. We used condoms the first few times we slept together and he had some on hand in his drawer and then we relied on my birth control. Is it strange that there are now none anywhere. Where did those other two go?! I’m debating bringing this up tonight but I think he will be defensive due to feeling accused. (I am accusing him I suppose). But also what would be the point because if he did cheat, he’s only going to lie about it and now know I’m onto him. If he didn’t he’s going to be pissed I don’t trust him. I don’t know what to think   submitted by   /u/ThinRemote3162   to   r/relationships_advice [link]   [comments]