I have 5 myself....but no assistance(mostly, for 3y after my son was born he had children with special healthcare needs medicaid for his therapy & I got 323/mo as his 24/7 caregiver(the salary I gave up was 20x that-lol-but was better than nothing!! No regrets!)...&still paid $11-4x/wk for parking for said therapy(it was alot in 03)), no begging...sometimes no eating for me, but we were ok. However sometimes I still feel lumped into that category when people see me out & about(we are now a top 10% HHI family(we started bottom 25%))🤷♀️