It also depends on when their school schedule is, some schools run programs during summer months, but school is only just now starting up again for many, so until recently I bet she was doing it all. And skipping meals to ensure the kids got fed first and foremost. Ideally she'd also not be having more in this situation, but she can't unring the bell. And we don't know the circumstances surrounding her getting pregnant. It's still not wrong for a living human to ask for help with the most basic need all humans have because they're going without I'll save my harsh judgement for if she receives help and asks for name brands only or something ridiculous. Especially when most people who are honestly helping their neighbors are the ones who have been in her position, or just willing to share what they have already in their homes.