i get it. i decided not to have kids because of my significant health issues. i don’t think OP can’t work though, she’s just off work at the moment due to her medical reasons at the moment (which could be related to her pregnancy) — but i get it. i think some people believe having kids is easier than working, but they’re very misinformed, especially nowadays! raising a child is insanely hard work and it only really gets any easier after they’ve left the home… i hope your 5 kids are doing well, and you too! MS is so evil. ❤️