He hopes to be X weight by Y date? So he wants you to be Z weight NOW? I can’t stop laughing at him asking for a partner’s weight and fitness to be a certain level because he MIGHT get to a lower weight. He wants you fit based on future projections lol. While I really hate discussions of weight, I wish someone would date him then just stay on his ass about losing weight. Just be a complete asshole daily about his weight. Drag him. There is nothing wrong with wanting someone who enjoys the same activities as you do. But there is with deciding what their body should look like and weigh to be acceptable. I give this guy a few years before he’s in the Philippines or somewhere trying to coerce someone in a tough situation to marry him as an escape.