AI Narration Listen 00:000.5x0.75x1x1.25x1.5x2xThank you for your feedback.Your feedback has been reported succesfully.A buttery pool flecked with herbs, the last smear of a ragu or the remains of a fresh Ligurian sauce made with basil, garlic, pine nuts, olive oil and a generous drizzle of Pecorino seem to demand the fare la scarpetta — to souse the bread in the last trace of jus on the plate in an expression of unabashed gastronomic satisfactionAs the world grows smaller, such contradictions offer a glimpse of the subtle ways in which culture shapes ideas of pleasure and propriety.2 min readOct 21, 2026 06:10 AM IST First published on: Oct 21, 2026 at 06:10 AM ISTIn Vogue’s 1948 Book of Etiquette, Millicent Fenwick, editor, and later Republican Party politician, noted that one of the most offending habits at the dinner table was to mop up sauces with bread or to dip bread in coffee. But, she added, there were exceptions — “… sopping up sauces or gravy with a piece of bread is standard practice in the good, hearty eating ways of middle-class Continental Europe; here (in America), it is regarded as a little eccentric…”Nearly a century later, in Italy, where the pleasures of the table are taken seriously, diners seem to be still torn over that question: To mop or not to mop. After all, a buttery pool flecked with herbs, the last smear of a ragu or the remains of a fresh Ligurian sauce made with basil, garlic, pine nuts, olive oil and a generous drizzle of Pecorino seem to demand the fare la scarpetta — to souse the bread in the last trace of jus on the plate in an expression of unabashed gastronomic satisfaction.AdvertisementAs the world grows smaller, such contradictions offer a glimpse of the subtle ways in which culture shapes ideas of pleasure and propriety. In Japan, slurping noodles and a clean plate are a compliment to the host, but not so in China, where good manners insist upon a token morsel left uneaten. In France, mealtimes are meant to be long leisurely affairs, not partaken in the manner of a business lunch. Perhaps the lesson in all of this is that dining etiquette is not merely a matter of knowing which fork to use or whether elbows should be on the table, but to learn to embrace the vibe. And to always leave room for a little sauce.© The Indian Express Pvt Ltd ShareWhatsapptwitterFacebook