/u/silcrete_quartzite on Let me trauma dump my entire life so you can understand why I need €50K so I can have a €75K+ wedding, pay off all my debts & have a cushion until I find a job. I don’t want to burden my dentist fiancee so I’m begging strangers so

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I think that can also be a thing that Dutch people do, and it fits with his personality. Every unfair body blow to his mental health and liquidity stands on it own, followed by an appropriate pause for the weight he carries to sink into the reader's mind.. and then another one.. and another.. Until we are amazed he is still standing, and cannot wait to be part of this story of survival against the odds.