I had twins and then a friend got pregnant with twins and I gave her so much stuff. She was constantly like "Are you sure? How much do you want for this??" Girl, I want it out of my house! That's my payment! She'll occasionally send pictures of cute outfits that both sets of twins wore, and it's adorable. I can't imagine a friend trying to guilt trip into giving stuff, that's bananas. You did the right thing.