Thanksgiving is a few weeks out, and the group-text invitations are losing to paper ones. Families are digging old recipe cards out of kitchen drawers, borrowing sewing machines for matching Christmas pajamas, and mailing handwritten cards to people they would normally ping on their phones. Ordering gifts online feels less festive than taping a name tag to something made at the kitchen table. Then there’s the chair. More homes now keep one extra seat at the dinner table for a neighbor, a widowed friend or a cousin who just moved to town. Here are 11 holiday stories, from a retired mail carrier writing to his old route to a grandmother who finally said sorry, that show why these traditions are worth bringing back.