I really really suck at it. New season of why did I date this man. Context: initially we were meant to be fwb as I didn’t find him attractive then he said he developed feelings for me and started giving me so much attention that I genuinely believed him and started developing feelings as well. Cons: he confessed to me that he cheated on all his previous partners multiple times, he said after the 5th month he feels the urge to cheat because of boredom. He had sex with a 16yo when he was 24, and blamed her for acting like a “b\*tch” during their hang out. He regularly went to strip clubs. He had a serious problem with alcohol even though he was kinda “anesthesized” to it so 10 cocktails would slightly make him tipsy. He used to drive after drinking so much. He always expected me to give him bj but never reciprocated, the few times he did finger me or try to eat me out he also made me feel guilty and told me I stank. (Mind you I don’t suffer from any infection or std, also I take my personal hygiene seriously especially before sex). He also said me being too wet during intercourse was unhygienic. He used to criticize me heavily “jokingly” and whenever I brought it up he replied with “it was a joke”. He once said he has a habit of catcalling at work and when I expressed my disappointment he said he was joking and would never do this because there are some strict rules at work. Last straw was him doing a kiss gesture to a random lady in the restaurant. Pros:   submitted by   /u/Remarkable_Exam_9418   to   r/dating_advice [link]   [comments]