My brother Daniel married Kayla on a Saturday in June 2026 at a riverfront venue in Spokane, Washington, in front of 142 guests. Our mom, Linda, is 61 and spent 31 years as a teller at a Spokane credit union. When Kayla’s wedding budget fell apart three months before the date, Mom paid $2,400 for the gown Kayla had cried over at a bridal boutique on the South Hill. Some people will say that money bought Mom a place in the speech; others will say a gift with expectations attached was never really a gift.