Daisy Shah on dealing with intoxicated fans; expert weighs in

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Daisy Shah says that sometimes fan don't respect her personal space in crowded events (Image: Instagram/shahdaisy)Celebrity events may look glamorous from the outside, but being surrounded by thousands of strangers can also come with moments of genuine discomfort. Actor Daisy Shah, in a conversation with Bollywood Bubble, opened up about the less glamorous side of public appearances, recalling how some fans can get uncomfortably close.Shah recalled how, sometimes, when an event is very crowded, many people request a selfie. Sometimes, fans would get “offended” that she didn’t click with them, even though there was a high chance she couldn’t hear them in a crowd of 3,000-4,000.Sometimes, the interactions get deeply unsettling. “And there have been instances where I have gone to certain events and, you know, itni proximity pe there are like two or three people who are… like I can smell that they are reeking of alcohol. And I’m like, I don’t want to associate with… like, I don’t even want to engage with this person. But you can’t get rude because there are other people also,” Daisy added.While some may see this as a celebrity being overly cautious, mental health experts say such reactions are deeply human.DISCLAIMER: This article is based on information from the public domain and/or the experts we spoke to. Always consult your health practitioner before starting any routine.Why intoxicated behaviour can make others uncomfortableAccording to Dr Kunal Kumar, Senior Consultant, Psychiatry, ShardaCare–Healthcity, alcohol can significantly affect how people behave in social spaces.People under the influence may show reduced self-awareness, poor personal boundaries, loud behaviour, or impaired judgement because alcohol affects the brain’s ability to regulate behaviour, emotional control, and social cues. “In crowded social settings or events, this can make others around them uncomfortable, especially when the smell of alcohol, changes in speech, or unpredictable behaviour become noticeable.”Daisy’s reaction, he explains, is also psychologically understandable.Story continues below this adAlso Read | Fan in the hotel room: What the Virat Kohli video tells us about privacy in modern timesHuman beings instinctively respond to smells, body language, and behavioural cues when assessing social and emotional safety. If someone appears heavily intoxicated, another person may subconsciously feel caution, discomfort, or the need to create distance.There is also the professional layer to consider. In public-facing environments, people may worry about awkward interactions, social image, or being associated with behaviour they do not personally relate to.At the same time, many people still try to remain polite despite discomfort. “This creates an internal conflict where a person feels uncomfortable but still behaves diplomatically to avoid appearing rude or insensitive,” Dr Kumar explains.Daisy herself acknowledged this balance, calling such experiences “part and parcel” of the job and admitting that sometimes, the only option is to quietly walk away.Story continues below this adDISCLAIMER: This article is based on information from the public domain and/or the experts we spoke to. Always consult your health practitioner before starting any routine.