She was thinking “ my parents think it’s ok and praise me like I do no wrong and teach me that I’m blameless for my bad decisions so I think it’s ok to do whatever I want”. Look at the kind of parenting she had- gets praised like she’s a hero cuz she worked to support the kids she chose to have, like it’s something special she did that everyone else isn’t doing every single day. It’s called enabling and this is the result