Well that certainly triggered a response from you. But many women with their own homes and jobs will tell you they have had the same experience. I’ll try to answer your questions in order even though they are cxnty. Question 1: Why let someone stay? Because sometimes people have good reasons and need a place to stay for a couple of nights My rental fell through. I had an argument with my spouse. It’s too late for me to drive home. I have a job interview in the morning. Visiting for a few days. Questions 2: Repeatedly? No. I have not repeatedly done this. But over the years I have at times had house guests. That’s not abnormal. Questions 3: Who are they? Work friends, college friends, acquaintances. I’ll assume you are not asking for names. Question 4: You expect them to find a place in a few days? Yes. I expect legitimate guests to go home or find a place to stay. Statement 1: You sound like someone looking to be used. Really? You sound like someone that might be a user. See how snotty little insults can go two ways. Statement 2: Doesn’t make you a kind person. Giving someone a place to stay for a couple of nights is indeed kind. But having them want to extend that to a hobosexual relationship is not going to happen.