We did something similar! 1. Something they want 2. Something they need (usually clothes, or a coat and shoes.) 3. Something to improve a talent they have or to help stregnthen their motor skills. (For example. One kid who likes to sow gets a sowing or knitting kit. one might be really into building, and get puzzles or a difficult Lego set, or a birdhouse making kit, one who is artsy might get coloring books/crayons or a how to draw book , one who plays the guitar might get gifted lessons and some accesories, maybe someone wants to learn a sport, so they get a basketball. Me wanting to learn to do nails, i was gifted a nail painting kit as a kid!)