I’m a well educated and successful finance professional in a major city in the Midwest, traveling occasionally to NYC and elsewhere. I am committed to my marriage but looking for something additional in my life to spice things up. Ideally, I’m looking for someone else that values utmost privacy and is in the same situation (married, family) without expectation that it will ever change. I’d prefer to keep communication to occasional to fairly infrequent, but have the ability to meet up a handful of times each year. Think about it like an occasional meetup with a close friend, where assuming there’s a connection that develops, we get the chance to every once in awhile enjoy dinner and perhaps lock ourselves in a fancy hotel room for a day and let the passion take us. Genuine connection that develops over time is important here— I’m not looking for one time things. About me: 42, caucasian, 6’ tall, some greying; generally see myself as attractive and have been complimented on my looks during my adult years. I enjoy reading, travel, and staying active. I take care of my body and will want someone that does so too. I’m confident but easy-going, and positive. Those would be things I’d appreciate in others as well. Because I value the connection as much as any physical attraction, I hope to meet people that can carry a conversation and enjoy the time. Look forward to hearing from anyone that would like to get in touch. Tell me a little about yourself!   submitted by   /u/StandardMacaron8996   to   r/OpenMarriageR4R [link]   [comments]