Umm just no. The whole world is in a financial crisis with the affordability of housing, petrol and food just to name a few. We are all struggling and managing the best we can to our abilities through these hard times. This person needs to suck it up and deal with reality. Either wait a little longer for their holiday, or yolo and go and deal with their consequences later. Plus also, Why can’t the gf pay for some of this trip?! We are in the 21st century. Why does it all fall on one to pay? Is this person even real? By the sounds of it, it’s very questionable if they have never met in person