Particularly those of you vanogara vese full time. Muri kuita bonde kangani pavhiki? Would love to hear from couples who don't have kids yet. My person and I both work, but I work from home sitting at my desk for about 6–7 hours a day while he works as a barman. I understand that he's on his feet most of the time, but I still want and expect some action at least four times a week. He has said things like, "you only think about sex" and that I'm "weird for wanting sex first thing in the morning." He says we should sometimes "pick each other's brains", and I'm like sure, we can do that... after having sex? Is it unusual for a woman to have a higher sex drive than her man? Or could it be that he's just not that into me anymore? We used to have lots of sex before we started living together, so I'm not sure if his attraction has changed or if there are other factors at play like his mental health (he's been very open about his struggles with mental health and his past struggles with substance use). Currently, we have sex about twice a week, sometimes three times if I'm lucky. But even then, only one of those is actually a satisfactory dambarefu, the rest are basically two minute noodles. So I'm torn between my insecurities (wondering whether he's still attracted to me or whether my libido is unusually high for a woman) and my paranoia (wondering whether he might be using something that's affecting his sex drive). Ladies and gents, am I asking for too much? Is this normal? I'd really appreciate some honest perspectives, particularly from couples living together full time.   submitted by   /u/Low-Fee-4541 [link]   [comments]