Handling family conflicts takes a deft hand so learning last minute that your in-laws and perhaps your partner has conspired behind your back. So a woman asked the internet if she was wrong to return a gift from her mother-in-law after discovering that it was given to pressure her into hosting Thanksgiving dinner.To add insult to injury, she only learned about these “hosting plans” when the MIL announced it in a family group without her permission. In a final betrayal, she discovered that her husband knew about the idea behind the gift the entire time.No one wants the responsibility of hosting sprung on thempressfoto / magnific (not the actual photo)But one woman realized her MIL had been plotting when she got her a stand mixerprostooleh / magnific (not the actual photo)stefamerpik / magnific (not the actual photo)Alarming_Article4240Camandona / magnific (not the actual photo)Most thought the MIL was out of line and that her husband should have backed her upSome thought the entire situation was messyOthers suggested that the husband was actually to blameLastly, a few thought no one was in the wrong and the entire thing was a misunderstanding