/u/deniseswall on Give me your kayak and I’ll let you come use it sometimes! I know you don’t get if you don’t ask but this seems a little ridiculous, kayaks are expensive, especially large ones.

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That's what got me. He could've asked for a loan or rental, but no! You give him the kayak and then he's willing to entertain loaning it back to you. Generous to a fault.