A woman recently shared a situation where she felt obligated to tell a friend that her husband was allegedly hitting on her at a wedding, only for the wife to turn the blame on her, according to a post on Reddit by u/jh211707 in r/GirlDinnerDiaries. The incident reportedly took place at a mutual friend’s wedding, where the woman attended without her partner. Drinks were flowing, and the mood was high, but things took a turn when the friend’s husband allegedly began making unwanted advances. She claims he first sent a pal to hit on her, which she found strange. After she turned that down, the friend’s husband reportedly approached her directly. According to her account, the friend’s husband asked if she wanted to hang out alone to get to know each other more. The woman said she managed to break away from him and immediately texted her partner to explain the situation. She also reportedly confided in her inner circle, knowing she had to tell the wife. She says the wife reportedly believed her right up until she talked to him She claims the friend’s husband hovered around her for the remainder of the night. He allegedly kept bringing her drinks and positioning himself to touch her, and she said other friends at the wedding witnessed the behavior. After the event, he reportedly continued the pursuit by sending a dozen messages on Snapchat and sharing his phone number. Pregnant friend’s husband hits on me… byu/jh211707 inGirlDinnerDiaries According to the Redditor, she had a friend take screenshots of the activity, and she captured more herself once she was alone and the messages kept coming. The next morning, she reportedly called the wife to explain what happened and provided the screenshots as proof. Initially, the conversation appeared to go well, and the wife seemed to believe her. However, the situation reportedly changed after the wife spoke to her husband. The wife apparently chose to believe his side of the story and blamed the woman for the entire ordeal. The woman is now dealing with mixed reactions from her social circle. While many supposedly support her decision, some people have suggested she should have stayed out of it. According to the Redditor, she remains firm in her choice, saying, “I would want to know,” because she felt informing the wife was her only option. The reaction may not be unusual, as Harvard research suggests people tend to dislike the bearer of bad news even when the messenger did nothing wrong. The effect appeared to ease when recipients learned the messenger meant well. That may not have happened here, as the wife reportedly heard her husband’s version of events shortly after speaking with the woman. Others who weighed in on the situation seem to agree with her choice. One person noted, “You did the right thing. Let her work out for herself that he’s an absolute scumbag.” Another said, “It sucks that some women don’t want to hear the truth about their cheating husbands, but I think you did the right thing by at least trying to tell her.” Wedding drama often spills onto social media, and this is not the first friendship to reportedly sour over a marriage. One woman’s attempt to torch a friend’s marriage allegedly backfired after the husband learned what she had done. In a separate case, a makeup artist allegedly demanded more money after spotting a client’s wedding photos on Instagram.