The bridal bouquet toss is traditionally open to anyone who is not yet married, but one wedding guest claims she was humiliated after the bride forced a redo. According to a post shared on Reddit by u/Early-Technology-131, the bride even made a strange and false assertion to the rest of the guests. The guest, a 24-year-old woman, attended a friend’s wedding and said she enjoyed the evening with friends before the bouquet toss. She said she is currently in a serious long-distance relationship with her 23-year-old boyfriend, and while they have discussed future wedding plans, they are not even close to being engaged. She decided to participate in the bouquet toss at the encouragement of two other girls she was hanging out with and said she believed catching the bouquet meant she would be the next person to get married. However, she admitted this was only the second wedding she has ever attended. The bride apparently had someone else in mind for those flowers Everything was reportedly going well until she caught the bouquet and stood there, happy in the moment. The bride allegedly walked over and asked what she was doing, then reportedly told her, “You’re literally getting married next week,” before demanding a redo loud enough for other guests to hear. AITA for catching the bouquet at a wedding? byu/Early-Technology-131 inAmItheAsshole The guest said she was stunned, as she is not getting married next week. However, the bride then allegedly had the flower girl perform a second bouquet toss so someone else could catch the flowers. The guest said she left quietly after fighting back tears, as she did not want to cause a scene. She later spoke with her boyfriend on the phone, who reportedly assured her she was not in the wrong for participating in the bouquet toss. Other guests at the party also allegedly reached out to tell her that her actions were perfectly fine, according to her account. The bouquet toss has murky origins, and the over-the-shoulder version most guests know today may be a distinctly American custom, per The Preamble. The bouquet toss is traditionally aimed at unmarried women at the reception, though whether engaged guests participate reportedly depends on each couple, according to etiquette guide Zola. Online commenters echoed this support. “You caught a bouquet, not a marriage proposal,” one commenter wrote, arguing the bride’s public redo was far more inappropriate than the guest staying up to catch it. Another suggested the bride likely wanted someone in particular to catch the flowers, while a third noted the bouquet toss is for anyone not married.