I am well aware, you simply asked if it was bad or good, so I answered that question. I think theyre delulu!! My husband & I have 4 multiracial children(5 total), weve experienced things, yet we still pay our mortgage!! We have lived in 11 states, moved 13x(DoD), some good, some less good, yet it was all on us to make the best of it for our family-regardless of the location or situation!!