You must have no opinions, be too young to ever realize how abusive this dynamic is going to be at all times, and have no family or friends to tell you otherwise. I will take care of you completely, but alsoI cannot afford a bag of rice at Christmas. 😂 This is why misogynistic society is bad. If you were a good man, you wouldn't need to make shitty rules to control a desperate young woman (potentially still a child if 18) just to find a bride. I sincerely hope this man has zero daughters, and that he never has them in the future either.