/u/janlep on She needs a whole list of groceries including steak and ribs. But she also checked for sales on the app, so it's okay. And, of course, needs it delivered.

Wait 5 sec.

Exactly. I’m sympathetic to struggling people—been there, it sucks. But it seems like too many people default to asking others to fund their luxuries. A GoFundMe for your sick kid or cancer treatment, sure, but pay for your own vacation. Sell something, get a side gig, whatever. Begging should be the last resort.