Tough time make tough men, Tough men make prosperous times, Prosperous times make weak men, Weak men make tough times. This applies to this lady as well. I think we are on the downhill slide from prosperous times, and part of that slide is the inability of people to mentally toughen themselves. I get that people struggle with different things and they often need help, but... there's a difference between asking for a shoulder to cry on, and wanting life to be handed to them on a silver platter.