I'm gonna preface this with I'm childfree, but also a childcare director so I don't hate kids, but I enjoy getting paid to care for them... I've seen a lot of posts here and on r/entitledpeople... and it's ALWAYS the same. The moment something doesn't go a parent's way, everyone else is sooooooooo selfish. Why is that their friggin' go-to? Like, honestly. Ya'll chose to procreate. It is literally no one else's responsibility to care for them/find care for them. They're your responsibility. Your friends, your family, they all have their own lives to live. If anything, it's the PARENTS that are the selfish ones for refusing to acknowledge that others have lives to live and shit to do that doesn't involve their spawn.