I've had this happen before, (loaned clothes to go on a vacation without me). But mine made me sense as in... or was a friend, a human i knew who i loaned my clothing item to. Also it was a corset which she needed for part of a cosplay costume, and I no longer was un the corset phase (i went through a phase where i just wore corsets all the time, or was a very uncomfortable phase). I didn't see the point in having her go out of the way to spend so much on one piece for her costume she would wear once to Disney (dressed as Ursula) when I had a perfectly good one just sitting there not being used anymore. (Yes, things were laundered well). She didn't ask for my corset, she asked where to get a decent corset that fit our body type, knowing I wore them before. I was just like, easy, from my drawer, I have these colors. But, it was my friend. My clothes aren't going on an adventure with a stranger.