‘Chahe mera husband bahaut accha hai…Mujhe mera paisa chahiye bank mein’: Neena Gupta on being financially independent

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Actor Neena Gupta explains why she insists on having her own money—even in a happy marriage (Source: Instagram/Neena)In a refreshingly honest conversation on Kareena Kapoor’s show What Women Want, veteran actor Neena Gupta opened up about something many women relate to, but don’t always say out loud: the deep need for financial independence, even within a loving marriage.Speaking about her relationship with money, Neena was unapologetically clear: “Chahe mera husband bahaut accha hai, aur mujhe us par koi shak nahi hai… Mujhe mera paisa chahiye bank mein,” she said.Neena shared that even though she deeply trusts her husband, she finds peace of mind in having her own money in her account.“Mere mann ko shanti hai,” she explained, referring to her decision to make Fixed Deposits, even though her husband—who is a Chartered Accountant—considers it a poor investment. “He says, ‘This is the stupidest thing you can do.’ But I feel very good with FD.”This moment of candid wisdom from Neena strikes a powerful chord because it highlights what many women have long felt but seldom express so publicly. Financial independence, for women, is about security, identity, and dignity.“When women have their own account and savings, they gain psychological safety,” says counselling psychologist Srishti Vatsa.She explains that this sense of financial control changes how women navigate daily life and major life decisions. “It means they can make choices without fear, whether that’s about work, relationships, or even small everyday decisions.”Story continues below this adSrishti compares it to carrying emergency cash while traveling, it may not always be used, but just knowing it’s there brings a sense of relief and control.“It’s about dignity and identity and is very important,” she adds.Neena told Kareena, “My husband says, ‘Main hoon na, tu kyun FD karati hai?’” But the actor stood her ground, saying that those small financial decisions give her a deep sense of calm. Kareena herself agreed, adding: “I think it gives us that… mann ki shanti.”Gender roles and economic dependency are still often debated, so voices like Neena Gupta’s talking about this matters. Her message is clear: even love and trust don’t replace the personal strength that comes from having your own financial base.Story continues below this adWhether you’re a working professional or a homemaker, having your own savings is smart, not selfish. And as Gupta says, it’s not about not trusting your partner, it’s about respecting yourself. For more lifestyle news, click here to join our WhatsApp Channel and also follow us on Instagram© IE Online Media Services Pvt LtdTags:Neena Gupta