Me too. I have had people ask why I don't ask for things I would LIKE but do not have because I have chronic condition and cancer. I was brought to tears because I was given a lap quilt to take to treatments, scans etc because of cancer. That was from a charity that just does quilts to give cancer patients (Comfort Quilts Against Cancer). But it would never occur to me to try and demand things from anyone because of having health problems!